QUERY: My 10-year-old son doesn't want to spend time with my oldsters and it will get pretty embarrassing for me. He says that he will get bored at their place and avoids meeting them. My in regulations rejoice everytime he says that and I concern that at the moment he says it just to delight them. Somewhere he seems to be internalising it too. How will have to I take care of this case?
EXPERT: From what you have got shared seems like you're very disturbed with the best way your son has been feeling about your oldsters.
However, I would like you to remember that children, at the moment, do not like to meet relations, extended families until and till the family has children of their age with whom they can engage or play. That is the foremost reason in the back of your kid's boredom. In this situation, you will have to explain the importance of grandparents on your son - each maternal and paternal grandparents are equally important.
You can further elaborate by way of pronouncing that he will miss out on the time spent with them, the knowledge they have got to offer and the type of studies they have got had.
Try to help your oldsters find not unusual issues that hobby each your oldsters and your son so that they can have a laugh while having amicable discussions. I am positive their bond will turn out to be a stupendous dating over a time frame.
Dr. Rachna Khanna Singh is the HOD of the Holistic Medicine & Psychology - Artemis Hospital, Gurgaon
EXPERT: From what you have got shared seems like you're very disturbed with the best way your son has been feeling about your oldsters.
However, I would like you to remember that children, at the moment, do not like to meet relations, extended families until and till the family has children of their age with whom they can engage or play. That is the foremost reason in the back of your kid's boredom. In this situation, you will have to explain the importance of grandparents on your son - each maternal and paternal grandparents are equally important.
You can further elaborate by way of pronouncing that he will miss out on the time spent with them, the knowledge they have got to offer and the type of studies they have got had.
Try to help your oldsters find not unusual issues that hobby each your oldsters and your son so that they can have a laugh while having amicable discussions. I am positive their bond will turn out to be a stupendous dating over a time frame.
Dr. Rachna Khanna Singh is the HOD of the Holistic Medicine & Psychology - Artemis Hospital, Gurgaon
"My 10-year-old son doesn't like his grandparents!"
Reviewed by Kailash
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April 26, 2019
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