Seeking: Love and acceptance

Dad, I like girls… Though I know you dream another way for me. You could have grand youngsters, however I’d reasonably prefer her to have the baby.

— Surabhi Raut, filmmaker


As we means our 15th 12 months in combination, we wish to thank our families and buddies, directly and homosexual, for being via our facet and making us feel like an ordinary couple.

— Dr Prasad Dandekar, oncologist, and Shripad Ranade, leadership trainer

Meet these courageous participants of the LGBTQIA+ neighborhood who've made up our minds to come back ahead to share their stories and inform the sector that they belong right here, and that it's time for them to reside in an area this is inclusive. The Times Out & Proud campaign launches with a movie that includes the lives and struggles of people from the LGBTQIA+ neighborhood, who've taken keep an eye on in their narrative, are confident in their pores and skin, and whose message to the society is loud and clear: ‘Section 377 could have been repealed, however here's your chance to walk the talk’.

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The movie stocks four private stories of participants from the neighborhood. The director, Jaydeep Sarkar, unearths that each individual featured in the movie challenges preconceived notions and prejudices. During the making of the movie, he says, “What truly struck me used to be how confident each of them used to be. There used to be no sense of apology, or any shred of doubt or lack of confidence in them, about who they are. The couple we have now featured in the movie – Dr Prasad and Shripad – has been in combination for 15 years, method earlier than Section 377 used to be repealed. The courage with which all of them have led their lives is remarkable.”

When we reached out to Shripad, who has penned a thank you notice for his buddies and families in the Times of India’s Classifieds section, he stated, “We nonetheless don’t have equality with regards to one of the vital most basic civil rights that directly people experience. In a certain method, the Section 377 verdict used to be great. But in the long run, it is in society — circle of relatives via circle of relatives, good friend via good friend — that we will must integrate. I feel, we're truly having a look at individuals who are not LGBTQIA+ to now take a step each. And that’s the way in which ahead.”

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Literary critic Vivek Tejuja, who is seeking a partner in Mumbai through the Classifieds section, concurs that no longer much has modified with regards to how society views the LGBTQIA+ neighborhood even after the repealing of Section 377. “The real combat is with people’s conditioning, and that hasn’t modified. That will nonetheless take time and it is only thru awareness that this may increasingly happen,” he adds expectantly.


Jaydeep, who shot the movie over two days, says that to begin with, he did not wish to inform the folk featured in it in regards to the Classifieds, as a result of he did not want any ready answers. “I sought after a way of honesty and truth in the storytelling. I came out of each interview very moved and inspired. To reside lifestyles as an LGBTQIA+ individual in a society this is ready with labels, to pass judgement on you and term you as the ‘other’, and to possess your self and your identification is an epic fight. Then to possess your sexuality with such self belief and fearlessness, with such pleasure – it is not just inspiring for the LGBTQIA+ neighborhood, however for everyone,” he says.

The #TimesOutAndProud campaign introduces a platform for the LGBTQIA+ neighborhood to use the Classifieds ads section to start speaking about the fact that it is society that should trade, no longer the neighborhood. Jaydeep says that the folk featured in the movie hope the campaign will lend a hand participants of the neighborhood in finding the arrogance to be who they are, and reside lifestyles to the fullest, with out apology.

Like Shripad says, “I dream of a day after today the place it does no longer topic what my sexuality or gender is. That day, I feel, is quite a long way off, however we're making progress.”


If you are a member of the LGBTQIA+ neighborhood or wish to fortify a chum or relative from the neighborhood, and wish to be featured in the Times Out & Proud classifieds, write to us together with your full title and make contact with quantity at

outandproud@timesgroup.com.
To watch the movie, visit toi.in/outandproud

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